About

Hi, I’m Kelvin! I’m a sex blogger, writer, and pervert based in the UK. I originally started this blog in 2017, as I hadn’t seen many transmasculine voices in the sex blogger-sphere and wanted to fill that void, ultimately expecting it to be a short term project. 6 years, writing a book, a ton of reviews, and becoming a trading card later, I’m glad to say I was wrong! As well as all the work on this blog, I’ve also written for other bloggers, websites, and media outlets about subjects as diverse as soft packing, the importance of Pride, aftercare for dominants, and how erotic fanfiction became a big part of my sexual awakening.

While it’s not something I tend to directly focus on in my writing, the way I write about and interact with sex is shaped by my identities as a transmasculine person, as a queer person, and as non-monogamous. I’m also autistic, T4T, and wishy-washily identify as a stone top.

Outside of kink/sex/sex blogging, I love video games, wearing big stompy boots, power metal, and knitting. Within sex writing and blogging, I love reviewing leather gear and packers, am always on the lookout for the leather strap-on harness and vagina friendly fisting lube of my dreams, and am always telling myself to write more t4t erotica.