Hi, I’m Kelvin! I’m an intersex trans man, erotica writer, and a sex blogger. My pronouns are he/him/his.

Kinkly Top 100 Blogger BadgeI started this blog in August 2017, with the intention of posting toy reviews from a transmasculine point of view. While most of this blog content is still toy reviews, I’ve also found I enjoy writing erotica, and producing posts on transmasculine specific sex education. I’ve also guest posted for other blogs, including Girl on the Net, and Erotica at Doxy.

In 2018, I was voted one of Kinky’s Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes, #2 in their list of sex blogs for/by men, and #7 in their list of LGBTQ blogs.

I am bisexual, and exclusively date and have sex with other transgender people. I am non-monogamous in behaviour but not polyamorous in identity. I enjoy bottoming and topping, as well as being dominant and submissive in equal measure. I have a number of kinks, but I’m not really interested in kink dynamics outside of sex. I currently take PrEP, and have been a full service sex worker in the past. If you want to know more about my body, please take a look at my body info page.

My favourite harness is the SpareParts Joque (review here), and my three favourite toys are Mr. Hankey’s Toys Rentman (review here), Pleasure Works First Mate (review here), and the We-Vibe Tango (review here). My favourite lube is Sliquid Sassy, and my favourite dental dams are GLYDE’s vanilla dams.

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