Sometimes, I tweet things I think are original, only to find out later that somebody else has already come up with them. Usually it’s some bad jokes, and about half the time it’s a joke I myself have already made. In this case, however, the tweet I thought was original was this:
One of those penis extender toys, but for fingers. Send tweet
— Kelvin Sparks ⚡ (@kelvinsparks_) November 18, 2019
Turns out, that product completely exists, and it’s the Finger Extender from Wet For Her, who also sent me the New York Toy Collective Shilo for review. Sometimes also sold as the Wet For Her Two, this toy is available in black, purple, or pink silicone, has a length of 4.7 inches, has an average diameter of 1.38 inches, and is available for $39.95.
I won’t lie, I think the Two looks goofy as hell. It’s shaped like two fingers, including with a crease down the middle, and whenever I slip it over my fingers I want to make a silly ET voice. Sometimes I can’t help but think of using it to give a really dramatic two-fingered salute. It reminds me of those clear plastic witch fingers toys you can find around Halloween. And yet… I am so fond of it. Its existence brings me joy.
Despite my delight at the fact that this product was an actual thing that existed, initially I wasn’t sure what the Two could offer compared to using a dildo on a partner. I flag light pink pretty much constantly and using a dildo on a partner for g-spot stimulation is usually my default way of having sex, so what could the Two offer instead?
Well, I actually did not realise this was an issue until after I compared using the Two, but I actually got a lot less joint pain using the Two compared to holding a dildo. I’ve had mild pain when gripping for a while, and recently got an autoimmune issue diagnosis which explains it. While I have my eye on a hand harness in the long term, the Wet For Her two feels much more comfortable than holding a dildo. During partnered sex, I’ve found the Wet For Her Two is most useful for me when it comes to prostate stimulation. I have stubby little fingers and often struggle with reaching my partners’ prostates with my hands in a way I don’t tend to struggle with reaching g-spots.
I will admit fingering while wearing the Two is definitely a different experience to figuring without it- the bottom half of the Two’s length that makes up the sheath element has quite thin silicone, and while I can and do feel clenching, the sensation as a fingerer is definitely less intense while wearing it. Some motions are more awkward- I had issues with the curling ‘juicing’ motion that I tend to use for prostate or g-spot stimulation- and it does make clit stimulation really difficult if you’re fingering vaginally, as the thumb is so much further away from the clit than it normally is during fingering.
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t doesn’t feel quite like a dildo, and if you know that sensation is something you enjoy, I’d point you towards just getting a dildo instead (Wet For Her stocks a large selection of dildos, including Shilo, which I love). But if you’re a person who particularly enjoys fingering- which I, a known fisting gay, am- then it’s a toy that might work for you. It does change the experience of fingering somebody, and I definitely think theres more use for it in reaching the prostate than reaching the g-spot.
As an aside, I don’t generally like fingering myself so I didn’t expect to get much from the Wet For Her Two for solo play. And while I didn’t utilise it for fingering much, I did find the fact it’s hollow became an unexpected boon for solo play. I generally masturbate by using an external vibrator (usually my Tango) and sometimes having a toy inserted (in the past this sometimes meant vaginally, although it’s pretty much only anally in the past 6-ish months). Because I tend to use both hands to position the external vibrator properly, it can be awkward to have to use my hands to keep a toy in place too. The hollowness of the Two means I can hook a single finger into it to keep it in place, making it way easier to manage two toys at once. It’s totally non-intentional, but it works surprisingly well! And I’m here for it!
I will say that unless you’re particularly fond of fingering, a dildo would likely suit you better than the Wet For Her Two. It does also require some adjustment of the process of fingering, but I’ve found it does make prostate stimulation when fingering my partners significantly easier. It’s definitely not going to be a toy that makes it into regular use for me, but I’m glad it exists. Even if it does look goofy as hell.
The Wet For Her Two Finger Extender is available for $39.95 from Wet For Her
This product was sent to me by Wet For Her in return for a fair and impartial review. No affiliate links were used in this post.
